Jack Briant Reporter

Wednesday, June 20, 2012

Good Manners


No Problem 

Well I think there is. A problem that is with the phrase all Generation X, Y and Z humans retort  when you respond with Thank You to them.  They say “No Problem”. Growing up in the 60’s Please, Thank you and Your welcome were the normal salutations when asking for something and receiving it. Somewhere in time I don’t when this annoying response to Thank You became part of our pop culture but I have detested it since I first heard it.

When I broke it down I usually heard it from people in service jobs. Restaurants, gas stations, Dunkin Donuts all the employees would say it. No Problem? Maybe they don’t mean the words as they are written because if it were a problem a lot of coffee and gas and food wouldn’t be bought in too many places. It just irked me and I know there are many more important things to talk about but No Problem is just bad manners.  

And as long as we’re at it how about waiters when they pick up the check at a restaurant? Do you need change? The gall that some of these individuals have gets me steamed. It’s preposterous. Instead of bringing back the change from the bill they want to know if they can keep the residue. I am sure this works for some getting more than they deserve because to say: Yes bring me change makes you sound like you’re penurious.  When waiters or waitresses say that to me I just say yes. It’s just bad manners. And manners are just not very fashionable in the 21st Century.  








Sunday, June 17, 2012

Kristen James: A Riders Perspective


Under Construction. I want this to come out as perfect as possible. 

Jack 

Thursday, June 14, 2012

My Orange Cone


I just started seeing these small orange cones dotting the floor of the Main Studio taking XCLR8 last Friday but the metaphor has a much larger connotation.  To me it meant that I have to establish boundaries in my life and when they are crossed I need to speak up and not let anyone run slipshod over me relying on my gentle nature.  

An orange cone can be moved but its me that will move it not those unauthorized who seem to make unilateral decisions that are not for them to make. Comments about me personally will always be someone else’s opinion and nothing more. It is the power that I give them that makes unacceptable behavior seem acceptable when by any account it is not.  

I will live my life and not hold court to anyone else’s opinion about what is best for me. Left to my own mind and heart I will live longer even if it is for me to be alone.