The way to a woman’s heart is paved with emotion and a nice physique and good brain help but her mind and body open when a man tries to empathize with his woman rather than trying to understand her.
Love becomes a sticking point in a man-woman relationship however when the female of the species insists on the premise that “He should just know”. From a man’s perspective trying to read a woman’s mind is like trying to solve the Rubik’s cube blindfolded. In a movie White Men Can’t Jump (1992) Rosie Perez’s character tells Woody Harrelson that she is thirsty. He like a good BF hands her a glass of water. She says NO that’s not what she wants him to do. What she does want is for him to acknowledge her thirst rather than quench it.
Men are from Mars and Women from Venus is not just a marketing phrase because how they each perceive communication albeit in the same solar system are still different planets. If a man can become Kreskin and read minds his love will be blissful throughout but since most mortals are not so blessed he will probably be stuck with the plague of asking his lover to confide in him what exactly it is she wants. The solutions that come quick to the mind of man are the one’s to avoid.
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Oh my dear man you paint all women with the same brush. No two people are the same regardless of gender.Mind reading is not essential if one focuses on the clues and waits. Most of us express our needs given time. If I'm sad i may want you to hold me. If I'm angry I may not want to be touched. Body language is an important clue. PAy attention.
ReplyDeleteNice comment but the fact is women still want their men to read their minds.
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